Thursday, November 19, 2015

~MY TWO CENTS...~

Have you heard blogging called "pretty blogland?"  I have, not a whole lot, but the term is used now and then.  I do understand what they mean...still....
It always makes me feel foolish to take pleasure in the simple things, like new dishes, plaid wallpaper, etc, etc. especially when our world is upside down.  There is so much tragedy going on and I know I have not mentioned it..or given my sentiments on my blog.  I've exchange emails with a dear and valued friend  and dispite our differences, it went amazingly well.  :)  More than one friend in fact.  It's fun learning you don't have to "walk on eggs" with those that are really good friends.

I guess I thought  it was pretty much understood that the world is saddened by all that is going on.  
I just want to say that with all our differences politically and in so many other ways, showing respect is becoming more and more important and I'm seeing less and less of it.  On TV, in the papers, everywhere.  It's good to share one's views if you've a mind to do so, but I just cannot get into the unkind criticisms  that sometimes goes along with our politic's and views on all matters.
It's has become difficult to watch the news.  I often leave the room because I drive PH insane shouting at the television  But, you know him.  Patient Husband?
  
I like "pretty blogland" as it is sometimes called.  It's a bit of normalcy in a sad world.  It's fun to look at other people's homes and decor...and hear about their families and make friends.  Why not??  I mean, isn't that what we all profess to value?  Family life? 
So those who would criticize "leaders"  who are trying to cope with these terrible times,  please try and be kind and give those under pressure a break.  Don't perpetuate hate.  What good does it do anyone. 

Can you tell I'm up past my bedtime and getting a bit cranky?  :)

Not sticking my head in the sand here, just so, so tired of the anger and hatred in the world.

Love, 
Love, 
Love, 

Mona

26 comments:

  1. Such a sane and sensible viewpoint, Mona.

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  2. I agree with you. I have not mentioned the terrible things happening in our world and have concentrated on my own little world. Trying to not deal with things, I guess. But part of our lives need to be normal in order for us to cope. I loved hearing about your wallpaper and other things in your life. It shows that life goes on and those who are trying to destroy us can't.

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  3. Well said dear Mona! While we don't all agree on SO MANY things, we should ALL show respect for the views of others! I am praying that our World will heal and be a safe place for all of us! Sending HUGS and PRAYERS your way!

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  4. Well said Mona. I cry every time I watch the news but I still have to know what is happening. Keep posting because I do enjoy visiting your blog. Have a blessed day. Madeline

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  5. Dear Long Time Gentle Friend.... Yes, we can quietly discuss. So if we can, why can't others?<---Naive question, of course. When we have deeply held views, we have a hard time, tapping down our irritation, at having them dismissed or attacked. Guess it's human. Because one thing is for sure obvious, humans are not perfect.

    But hollering never changed any one's mind. Remember that Tessa! Remember that!!!!!

    I found a home in "Pretty Blog Land"... And was grateful for it. I found homey-things, and was grateful for it. I found safe haven, and was grateful for it.

    Sometimes, I can't calm down enough, to properly conduct myself, in Pretty Blog Land. And then, like now, it is time for me to step away. Let all those, who can remain calm, enjoy the safe haven of Pretty Blog Land.

    I'll be back. I will need to return. When I can be sure, to not upset the balance of Pretty Blog Land. When I can again contribute to it, as it has a right to be contributed to.

    Hugs, "Honey-Bunny"!!!! Hugs, Dear Blogging Friend!!!! Hugs, Dear FRIEND!! Drop the "blogging" part. You are more real to me, than people in my community. So you are not a "blogging" friend. You are a FRIEND!

    Tessa

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  6. it is very hard to listen to the news these days particularly because know one is quite sure how to fight back at terrorism. it used to be we went to war but it is a different world now. we have ridden in on the cusp of technology and it has changed everything.

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  7. I haven't addressed things either. My thought is that people hear enough about the awful events that are happening without meeting them again when they read my blog. I'm not ignorant or a Polly Anna. I just try to brighten my corner of the world any way I can....

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  8. My blood pressure goes up when I watch all that stuff on TV. I was always taught if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. I agree with your post Mona.
    Hope everything is fine in your part of the world, not that we are that far apart. Almost finished decorating for Christmas.
    Regards to Howard and take care of yourself.
    Happy Thanksgiving.
    Hugs,
    Mary

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  9. Mona, what a wonderful post. I love to read blogs for a bright spot and making new friends.

    Nonie

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  10. Love you right back and totally agree with you! I love to visit your sweet "cottage" and feel warmth and happiness and cute décor! I'll take "pretty blogland" any day over some of what's going on in the world. In gives me hope to see that not everyone has gone crazy!

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  11. Right on Mona . . . right on . . .
    Living is so much more beautiful living on the love, love, love side
    than on the other . . .
    I love you girl . . . and "pretty blogging!"

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  12. I haven't watched the news in years. I simply cannot handle it. Just enjoy yourself and your family and keep on doing what makes you happy. Sending you (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))) and have a great day.
    Hugs,
    Connie

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  13. Geese, I'll take "Pretty Blogland" anyday, over the sensationalism of news and front page reporters, especially knowing what most of them would do to get the better story. It is truly tragic and sad that this is what grabs most people and holds em tight to their news. Unfortunately, we live in a world where "sensationalism" makes money......so, it goes on and on and on. Here in my little town, I avoid that nonsense and thank you for your "Pretty Blog", your fun family and your nonsense, which brings laughter and joy to others. Also, thanks for Plaiden UP. ha,ha lol to you and my Maine Man. he,he

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  14. This is the first time that I heard that term applied to blogging, Mona, but why not share our lives and all the events in them in our personal posts. After all, it's better than the total junk that people write on facebook and other social media sites. And I agree that there is much sadness in the world now and also have not addressed it in recent posts.

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  15. Hi Mona how was your thanksgiving?

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  16. Hi Mona how was your thanksgiving?

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  17. It's your blog. There is no standard that says this or this or this must be covered. There are many who discuss different subjects with opinions. Thankfully, we can still do that in America.

    I enjoy what brings you pleasure...it makes you the kind person you are.

    Write away about whatever you want.

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  18. Hi Mona, I have never heard the term 'pretty blogland'. From your post I take it is meant to be a bit sarcky? Not sure so I apologize if I have misunderstood. What I love about blogland is meeting so many good people on here, such as yourself. I don't happen to write too many negatives on my blog either, and I don't have my head in the sand because of it. I read about the news and see it all on news shows and oh dear, what else is there to say? We need places to visit without negativity. I once said as much on a post after someone was a bit critical - only one time and not bad in seven years of blogging - of my 'happy posts'. I figured if my blog isn't their cup of tea, I am happy for them to move on and find someone who is. There are so many wonderful people in blogland, it is a joy to visit them, and I have certainly enjoyed catching up with yours. I found a lovely poem I would like for you to read. You can find it here:

    http://anenglishgirlrambles.blogspot.com/2015/12/my-wish-for-you.html

    Hope you'll stop by as it is one of those heart-warming reads that made me feel good after I read it.

    Wishing you and yours a very happy holiday season. Denise in Virginia

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  19. Hi there. Sorry I have been gone for so long. we have had a lot going on here in our neck of the woods.
    I so agree with what you said. I have said for some time that there is a lack of respect. We expect our children to be respectful but then we aren't respectful of our leaders. I think that is what is making our country weaker. We aren't respectful of law enforcement either. I know not all are perfect but need to be given the benefit of doubt. We don't know how we would react in those situations. What I really wish is that there was only one political party.
    I guess I better stop, but I so agree with what you said.
    I have had some serious situations. Sometimes I share and other times I can't. I try to keep my place a happy place but sometimes there are exceptions.
    I hope you are doing well as Mr. P. is as well. May your holiday season be one full of blessings. xo

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  20. As a person who only reads blogs rather than writing one, I can say I enjoy the "pretty" part. There is so much bad news right now and my husband is one who reads too much of it (I think) on the internet. His late mother was a terribly negative person and seemed to suck the air right out of a room. I am a new reader and love what you do here...keep up the good work!

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